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Discovering God’s Love — September 4, 2025

Discovering God’s Love

The Greatest Love of All

Hi everyone! Regarding this week’s discussion, it is very near and dear to my heart. Throughout my walk with Christ, I have learned to see God’s love in a plethora of ways. In my late teens to early twenties, I struggled to see God as my Father. During that period in my life, I had a very strained relationship with my dad, which negatively influenced how I saw YAH. My perspective of God was misconstrued by comparing Him to the shortcomings of man. As my faith grew, I learned that I couldn’t compare God to man. His nature is not the same. I realized we do ourselves a disservice when we make that comparison. No good comes from it. Instead, it causes what could be a flourishing Father-child relationship to be distant and fear-based.  But in reading the Word and personal experience, I could see God correctly. I could come to a place of belief that He is loving, and as His child, I can approach Him. I do not have to avoid Him trying to distance myself from a place of fear. But I can come boldly to Him.

At first, it was difficult for me to grasp the fullness of His love for me. With God’s patience and reassurance, He showed me what real love looked like. When I was finally able to receive God’s love, I was overwhelmed with gratitude, that I am a child of the Most High God loved immensely by my Heavenly Father. I am not unloved or unlovable. This is only part of my story; there is so much more I could share. I will share that seeing God correctly and receiving His love allowed me to extend grace in areas where my dad had fallen short in the early part of my life. While receiving YAH’s love, I could more freely give love to others, but more importantly, I was more inclined to showing it to my dad.

It’s my hope that my story will help those who have struggled to receive God’s love and see Him as their Father. You may not have had a strained or non-existent relationship with your natural father. But through other factors in your life, it can cause you to see YAH incorrectly. After this discussion, I pray you will divorce yourself of any misconceptions and embrace the love God has for His children. In today’s discussion, we will: discuss the depths of YAH’s love,  the ways God’s love is displayed, and how we embrace the Father’s love.

The Depth of YAH’s Love

The first area to discuss is the depth of YAH’s love for His children. Romans 5:8 shows believers how much we are truly loved by God. This is one of my favorite scriptures. I often paraphrase it as, “When we weren’t thinking about God, He was thinking about us. While we were living in sin, His love was shown by willingly giving His Son to bear the sins of the world.”  And of course John 3:16 is one, if not the most, commonly known scriptures. In verses 16 and 17, we see the benefits of believing in Christ. When we believe that Christ paid the ultimate sacrifice for our sins, we receive eternal life. We are not condemned but granted salvation through Christ. And, lastly in the latter portion of Romans 8, it shows us that no matter the opposition we face, it isn’t great enough to separate us from God’s love. The scripture reiterates that YAH’s love is expressed through Christ. It is vital for those who believe to understand there is no greater love than Christ laying down His life for all.

Even though there are individuals who would deny Him and choose not to accept the free gift given to us. We have to remove the former ideologies we’ve held within ourselves. We may have encountered people who could not love us genuinely, and it was either conditional, transactional, or not at all. But, in order to receive God’s love, we must believe it. It’s a matter of believing God’s Word for yourself. Someone can share the gospel with you. That is an expression of God’s love; but, it is up to each of us coming to a place where you read His Word and believe it is true. It is all about whether you believe or not. That is what we all must consider in our lives.

Displays of God’s Love

Once we’ve come to a place of understanding, believing the depth of YAH’s love, we then can see the various ways that God’s love is expressed. Listed below are some, not all, of God’s characteristics along with scriptures to support them.

God is Merciful

Mercy: compassion or forgiveness shown toward someone whom it is within one’s power to punish or harm (Definition from the Oxford Dictionary)

God is our Protector

God is our Strength and Sustainer

God is our Chastiser

God is our Provider

Embracing the Father’s Love

Now that we have discussed the depths of YAH’s love and some of the ways it is expressed, I hope it makes it easier for us to embrace the Father’s love. We are not orphans, left fatherless. We are sons of God [sonship]. We no longer have to be fearful and avoidant. Instead, we are able to confidently come to our Father and receive His love. Through the Word of God, we discover YAH’s character, which allows us to walk in Truth and remove any lie we once believed. Additionally, as our relationship grows, we are strengthened in our perception of God as Father.

Closing Thoughts

From this discussion, I hope you have gained a better understanding of God’s love and see how it has impacted your life. I would suggest rereading the provided scriptures, as well as discovering others to increase your faith in this area. Lastly, I pray that His Spirit would show you any areas that has hindered you from fully receiving and walking confidently as a child of the Most High God.

**Scriptures taken from the authorized King James Bible and the New King James Bible
**Definitions from dictionary.com, the Merriam-Webster, and Oxford dictionaries

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Walking in Love — June 25, 2025

Walking in Love

Week 1 Fruit of the Spirit: Love

Hello everyone!! This week, we start our discussion on the Fruit of the Spirit. Each week, we will explore one particular fruit. Today’s topic is love. ❤️It’s all about love!!❤️ We will discuss how we can walk in love as a believer. Navigating through scripture will show us what love is, our requirement to love, the example that God provides for us, and how it can be expressed to others.

First, we can understand what love is when we read I Corinthians 13:4-8a. It gives us a perfect understanding of what love should and should not be. I will begin with what love is. In the passage of scripture, we see that love is longsuffering. This means it is showing patience in spite of troubles, especially those caused by other people. Next, love is kind. In showing kindness, we are generous, helpful, and thinking about other people’s feelings. Also, love rejoices in the truth. Verse 7 lets us know that it bears, believes, hopes, and endures all things. These describe what love is. Additionally, it is important to recognize what love should not consist of. When we display genuine love, it is not envious. It’s not boastful of oneself. It should not be prideful. Love is not self-seeking, only looking out for the benefit of oneself. It does not behave unbecomingly or rudely. Love is not provoked to anger. Authentic love thinks no evil. It does not rejoice in unrighteousness. Lastly, it never fails. As believers, we can take 1 Corinthians 13 to analyze if we are truly displaying love the way God has purposed for each of us.

This love is agape love. It’s considered the highest form of love. It is different from storge (familial), eros (romantic), and philia (brotherly/friendship) love. It is unconditional and selfless. What we will discuss further in this post is that our Heavenly Father perfectly shows us how to display agape love. But, before we look at the Father’s example, we must examine the requirement we have as believers.

The Love Command

In the above scripture, Jesus lets us know that we are commanded to love one another. This is not a suggestion but a requirement. He reiterates that when we love each other, we display that we are His disciples. The agape love we give to others shows the world who we belong to. When we choose to love selflessly, we are being Christ-like.
Loving others is not always an easy task, especially when dealing with difficult and mean-spirited people. But we have to be mature enough to love the person even when they can’t reciprocate it. Our ability to love is not based on the other person and his/her willingness to embrace us with love. We love because we are instructed to do so. With our Savior giving us this command, we have a perfect model of selfless, unconditional love.

Our Example of Love

Our Father is the template for love. God is love. We look to Him to learn how to love others. In our love walk, we need practice. There may be times when we fall short and do not show love the way that Yah has modeled for us. But when we read the Word, we can mirror God in operating in unconditional love.  We see the depth of His love in Romans 5:8 and in John 3:16. It displays sacrificial love. God sent His only begotten Son to die for the sins of the world. In return, the Son willing laid down His life to be the ultimate sacrifice. There is no greater love than that. And, by grace, the free gift of God, all who put their faith in Christ are saved. Because of Christ’s finished work of cross (death, burial, and resurrection), we have life through Him. If we ever struggle with feeling loved, that should be the cure. Through the Truth of God’s Word, we can see and believe that we are fully loved. And, no one can love us more than our Father. 

In I John 4:7-21, it emphasizes loving others. It’s a call to action. God loves us, so our response is to love others. When we love, it shows that we abide in God, and He abides in us. As I previously mentioned, displaying love shows the world who we belong to. While the world dishes out hate, we choose love. But it’s not a tolerant, all accepting love. It does not think evil, nor does it rejoice in iniquity. This love does not make allowances for sin or any type of wickedness. It is not tolerating what God has condemned but giving the truth in love led by the Spirit of God.

At the end of the passage, God instructs us to love our brother. He shows us that we can not genuinely love Him if we don’t love our fellow brethren.  We must love the people we do life with. We can not harbor hate in our hearts and truly love the Father. In spite of conflicts, disagreements, and even offenses, we must forgive so we do not become bitter and harbor resentment. Consequently, bitterness and resentment can turn into hatred. This shows us the reason why we need to be long-suffering. Otherwise, we would constantly stay in a state of offense, unable to love our fellow brethren. God shows us that the selfless, sacrificial love we give to others must be enduring and genuine.

Genuinely Loving Others

Dissimulation: the fact of trying to hide your real feelings, character, or intentions (from the Cambridge dictionary)

As believers, our love needs to be genuine. Our words and deeds should be in alignment with each other. When we say we love others, we should follow through in our actions. Anything else is merely lip service and insincere. It is possible to feign an “I love you.” But, what we do, or rather how we treat others, proves something entirely different. I want to reiterate the importance of working through differences, disagreements, and conflicts. We can not afford to let trivial things become magnified, bringing in discord, which causes a breakdown in our love walk with others. Genuine love takes maturity. It is giving up the right to be right. It involves putting off any selfishness and ego.  Instead, we work through the challenges and hardships together in order to achieve a peaceful resolution and love one another sincerely.

In Romans 12:10, we are instructed to be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love. This lets us know that we must show love to each other as in a family. Just as families may have disagreements that can be resolved, the same applies within the body of Christ. As believers, we make up the members of the body, which represent God’s spiritual family. It is important for us to see each other as family enabling us to better love. We operate in selflessness and honor when we give preference to one another.

If we still are having a difficult time displaying love, we need Yah to reveal anything hidden in our hearts that’s hindering us from genuinely loving others. With His guidance, we can identify the root and work towards resolving the issue. But regardless of the issue, we must be mature enough to address it, choose to forgive, desire to reconcile, and then operate in love. No matter what we face in our love walk, we should always remember who our example is. We can turn to our Father, who is the blueprint. When our ability to love is being tested, we have the Word to guide us in agape love. And, thankfully we have the Holy Spirit who brings to our remembrance the Word which we have meditated on and hidden within our hearts. That is why it is vital to meditate on God’s Word so it can be utilized when real-life situations occur.


RECAP

LOVE is…   LOVE is not

  • Longsuffering
  • Kind
  • Rejoicing in the Truth
  • Bearing, believing, hoping, and enduring all things
  • Selfless and Sacrificial
  • Envious
  • Boastful of oneself
  • Prideful
  • Self-seeking
  • Unbecoming or rude in behavior
  • Provoked to anger
  • Thinking evil
  • Rejoicing in unrighteousness

Love never fails.

Think About It: Personal Reflection

  • Am I genuinely walking in love?
  • In what ways can I better show love to others around me?
  • Challenge: Find someone to sow a seed of love into his/her life.
**Scriptures used from the New King James Bible and the authorized King James Bible

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